December - Giving

Parenting and the Power of Giving

By Sean Moore, M.Ed. (Tippit Counselor)

Over the last couple weeks, we have focused on the theme of Giving.  Studies are now showing us that the act of giving actually releases feel good chemicals which leads to happiness.  In other words, people who give tend to be happier.  Throughout this article, we want to share some of the videos that we have shown to our students this month about the power of giving.

As counselors, we know that this school year has been the most difficult year for many students, teachers, and families.  As we look at mental health, we are forced to acknowledge the fact that simple acts of kindness towards another person can lead to a more positive mood and better overall life quality.  What's interesting is that the human race seems to be hard wired to help and give to each other.  One experiment showed that when given the option of getting something for themselves or getting something for their parent, kids over and over again chose their parents.  

As parents, you have an important role in helping your child become an overall amazing person.  Teaching them to give and facilitating opportunities to give is one way that you can encourage kindness and foster happiness in your child.  The Sparkle Box is a story that we adapted and read to the Tippit students about one family that takes advantage of the holiday season to teach their son, Sam, about the power of giving.  We want to encourage everyone to provide opportunities for your family to give over the holiday break, whether it's through time, service, money, or just a helping hand to a family member or friend that needs it.  


Comment and let us know how your family practices giving!  Happy Holidays!



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